Posted on December 13, 2022 in Complex Divorce

When a person is going through a divorce, there are myriad emotions they can find themselves dealing with. A person may feel a sense of relief and freedom that they are finally free of a negative and toxic relationship one day and the next feel sad and lonely that they no longer have a partner to deal with life with, even if the relationship was a rocky one.

In today’s world, social media has become an integral part of many people’s lives and all of those roller-coaster emotions are often shared on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, and other social media accounts. Unfortunately, all that sharing can have a significant impact on issues that need to be decided by the court, such as child custody, spousal support, and more. In fact, in one major survey of divorce attorneys, more than 80 percent of lawyers said that they use social media to dig for evidence against their clients’ spouses. The following are some of the ways that social media posts can affect your divorce.

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 Posted on December 08, 2022 in Complex Divorce

Going through the divorce process can be confusing, even overwhelming at times. Although every divorce case has its unique factors, there are some basic rules/laws that apply to anyone who is filing for a divorce in Texas. Whether you and your spouse will be engaging in a friendly and simple divorce or you are facing complex, high-net-worth litigation, the following information is important to know.

Residency Requirement

Every state sets its own residency requirement for divorce. In Texas, one or both of the spouses must have lived in the state for at least six months prior to filing for divorce, and also have at least 90 days of residency in the county the action is being filed in.

Unlike many other states, there is no time period the couple must have lived apart before filing. In fact, the couple can still legally live under the same roof as the divorce proceedings are taking place.

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 Posted on November 23, 2022 in Child Custody

Determining child custody and parenting time in a Texas divorce can be a complex issue to navigate around. It can become even more complex if the two parents do not live in close proximity to each other. When this is the case, there are certain factors besides the typical custody and parenting time decisions that need to be addressed.

The State of Texas

In many other states in the nation, traveling issues do not often need to be addressed when the parents live in the same state. Their state is small enough that distance does not really become a problem. Traveling does need to be addressed if the parents live in different states.

But Texas is the second largest state in the country. It takes up almost 10 percent of the total land size of the United States. Going from Point A to Point B often involves hours of driving or a trip to one of the state’s four major airports.

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 Posted on November 16, 2022 in High Asset Divorce

Often, when a couple begins to talk about ending their marriage, the process of the breakdown of the marriage has been occurring for some time, whether each spouse realizes it or not. Many times, one of the spouses has already decided they want a divorce and has even put plans into place to protect their financial future, but has not shared those plans with the other spouse. This leaves the other spouse vulnerable when it comes to their financial future. This is a particular problem in high asset divorces.

Who Handles the Money?

It is not uncommon for couples to “delegate” to each other different chores or responsibilities. For example, one spouse may be the one that takes the lead on most of the home decorating decisions or oversees the majority of the couple’s social and family commitments. In most marriages, although one spouse may be the one “in charge” of the responsibility, the other spouse still has input.

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 Posted on November 11, 2022 in Divorce

It is fairly well-known that about half of all first marriages end in divorce. The number of divorces for second and subsequent marriages is even higher. There are also many marriages where the couple is unhappy, yet they still stay together. It is estimated that about 20 percent of married couples experience marital distress. Marital distress can cause anxiety, depression, sadness, tension, and worry. All of these emotions can have a serious impact on a person’s health.

In fact, a new study has found that a bad marriage does not just break your heart emotionally – it can actually break your heart physically. According to the study’s findings, heart attack survivors who are in marriages where there is a lot of stress and unhappiness are at a higher risk of having a difficult recovery than those who are in happy marriages.

The Study

The study was conducted by researchers from the Yale School of Public Health, who tracked approximately 1,600 adults who had been treated for a heart attack between the years 2008 and 2012. Participants were between the ages of 18 to 55 and were either in a committed partnership or marriage.

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 Posted on November 04, 2022 in Child Custody

There are several issues that can cause significant tension between a couple going through a divorce, but the one issue that often causes the most stress is deciding what type of child custody arrangement will be made for the couple’s children. Attempting to predict how the court will rule is fairly impossible since there is such a wide array of factors the judge can consider. The only constant in any child custody case is that the court will base its decision on the best interests of the child.

Understanding What Custody Actually Is

Under Texas law, there are two types of custody that the court considers. The first is possessory conservatorship, also referred to as physical custody. Physical custody is what most often comes to mind for many people when they hear the word “custody” and means the right of the parent to have physical control over the child and where the child will live.

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 Posted on October 28, 2022 in Child Custody

It is not uncommon for parents to disagree about parenting style. Even parents who are together can have different opinions about how their children should be raised. When the parents are divorced, these differences may even become more pronounced. However, there is a difference between different parenting styles – such as one parent being strict about bedtimes while the other parent lets the child stay up as late as they want – and parenting choices and behaviors that can actually put a child in harm’s way. Knowing what those differences are and when you should report the other parent can be crucial to your child’s safety.

When to Report

No matter how upsetting it may be, the court will not intervene just because one parent does not agree with the way their ex-spouse is parenting their child. They will intervene, however, if there is evidence of any of the following:

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 Posted on October 20, 2022 in Complex Divorce

Divorce can get ugly, especially when the couple has a high net worth. If the relationship between the two spouses has become contentious, then one or both may feel that they deserve the majority share of the marital estate, despite the fact that Texas follows the community property method of asset and property division in divorce. And although it may be tempting to take certain steps to ensure that you get the majority share, it could result in some serious sanctions by the court if those steps are discovered. The following are some of the things you should avoid in your high asset divorce.

“Shopping” for an Attorney

When you are going through a divorce, you want to make sure you have a skilled attorney advocating for your best interests. It is not uncommon – in fact, it is recommended – that you meet with a couple of attorneys to make sure that you find one that you are comfortable with and that is qualified to meet your legal needs. However, what is not acceptable is meeting with multiple attorneys in order to prevent your spouse from also retaining a qualified attorney.

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 Posted on October 13, 2022 in Child Support

Under Texas law, when parents split up, all child support orders are issued in compliance with the state’s child support guidelines. There are situations, however, when the child or the parents may have what is referred to as extraordinary income or expenses. This is often the case in divorces involving a high net worth couple. In these situations, the court may deviate from the traditional guidelines and come up with a different amount.

Texas Child Support Guidelines

Generally, the court will take the parent’s net monthly income (based on the formula put in place by the state) and the parent will pay a percentage of that amount based on how many children the couple has. As of this writing, the current guidelines are:

• One child – 20 percent

• Two children – 25 percent

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 Posted on October 06, 2022 in High Asset Divorce

It is rare that a divorce does not have some level of complexity involved. These complications become even more compounded if a couple has substantial assets that need to be divided. This is usually because the more assets and property there are, the more there is to fight over, especially if the divorce is an acrimonious one.

Many high net worth divorces involve real estate, stocks, trusts, business interests, jewelry, art, antiques, and more. In order to ensure that there is a fair and equal division of your marital estate, it is important to have a qualified and experienced high-asset divorce attorney representing you. The following tips can also help to ensure that the process goes as smoothly as circumstances allow.

Keep It Civil

The end of a marriage is often filled with stress and anger. It can be difficult to communicate with your soon-to-be-ex-spouse about financial issues, but it is important to make an effort to keep it as civil as possible. This is a time to try to put that anger aside and not only share your wishes with your spouse but also listen to what they are saying and try to understand where they are coming from. This attitude makes asset negotiation much easier.

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