Considering Divorce? Could Discernment Counseling Work for You?

 Posted on May 05, 2014 in Divorce

Many couples on the brink of divorce will try marriage counseling as a last ditch effort to save the marriage. Quite often, one spouse wants to save the marriage (referred to as "leaning in") while the other spouse really wants out of the marriage (referred to as "leaning out"). The leaning out partner goes along with the marriage counseling but really does not try to work through their issues. Instead, the spouse points out that marriage counseling is not working and proceeds to file for a divorce.

However, a different type of marriage counseling has been developed by professors at the University of Minnesota and is being used in their Couples on the Brink Project. It is called "discernment counseling" and the goal is to help couples decide whether or not they should proceed with the divorce, try to save the marriage, or just separate for a while and then come back to decide. This is short-term counseling and not meant to replace traditional marriage counseling.

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Grounds for Disproportionate Award Divorce Settlements in Texas Divorces

 Posted on April 29, 2014 in Divorce

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Hunt County Woman Jailed for Contempt for Failing to Pay Divorce Settlement

 Posted on April 19, 2014 in Divorce

On April 25, 2013, Cherilyn Kinney, of Hunt County Texas was granted a divorce from her husband Robert Kinney. The final decree was May 22, 2013. As part of the divorce settlement, Cherilyn was to pay Robert $40,000. This amount was referred to as a debt in the settlement paperwork. The divorce judge gave her six months to pay the funds to Robert. The final due date was on November 22, 2013.

On November 23, 2013, because Cherilyn had failed to make the payment, Robert filed a contempt of court charge against her. A hearing was held on February 7, 2014, and the judge found Cherilyn in contempt. He ordered her held at the Hunt County jail until the entire $40,000 payment was made.

Her attorneys immediately filed a writ of habeas corpus with the Appeals Court in Dallas. Habeas corpus means a person is required to be brought before a judge or court who can decide if the person is being detained or held unlawfully or without just cause.

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How Valid is Your Prenuptial Agreement?

 Posted on April 14, 2014 in Prenuptial Agreements

It is rare that a prenuptial agreement is dismissed as invalid in divorce proceedings. But the recent case in New York where a the wife of a Long Island real estate mogul convinced the judge that the prenup she signed before their marriage was invalid is considered precedent setting in legal circles. Elizabeth Petrakis told the court that she was coerced to sign the agreement, only four days before the wedding, because her husband, Peter Petrakis, threatened to call off the wedding. Petrakis said she felt pressured because her father had already spent $40,000 in wedding costs.

In the agreement, Peter Petrakis would keep everything if they should divorce. Elizabeth Petrakis said her husband told her he would tear up the agreement as soon as they had a child. But two children later, he still did not tear it up. Elizabeth Petrakis has been arguing the validity of the agreement for seven years. Two prior Nassau County courts said that Peter Petrakis "fraudulently induced" Elizabeth to sign the agreement and those decisions were affirmed by a Brooklyn appellate court. So what are some of the grounds where a prenuptial agreement could be overturned?

1. Fraud is one reason why a judge could throw out an agreement. If one party fails to make full disclosure of all their assets, the court considers that fraud.

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Entrepreneurs and Divorce Part 1: Who Owns the Family Business?

 Posted on April 06, 2014 in Family Businesses

A big task during a divorce proceeding is determining what property is separate property (belonging to a particular spouse) and what property is marital property (to be divided in the divorce). Marital property is all property, other than separate property, acquired during the marriage until the date of separation. Marital property may include the family home, the family car, or a retirement account. Separate property is all property acquired by either spouse before the marriage, or all property acquired during the marriage by inheritance or gift. Separate property may include an inheritance from a parent or a cash gift from a friend.

 For some types of property, determining whether it is marital property or separate property can be challenging. One piece of property of particular concern to many divorcing couples is the family business.  Where the Family Business is Jointly Owned or Separately Owned In some instances, the court may determine that the family business is marital property (i.e., owned by both spouses). For example, a business that was started during the marriage, and with funds acquired during the marriage, may be considered marital property. During a divorce, the court will determine a value for the business and divide that value between the divorcing spouses. Where the court determines that a business is owned by just one of the divorcing spouses, the court will award the business to that divorcing spouse.  Where the Family Business is Part Separate Property and Part Marital Property Determining what happens to the family business can get complicated, however, when the business is a mixture of both separate property and marital property. For example, instances when a business may be part marital property and part separate property include:

• Income received from a business - Even if a business is considered the separate property of one of the spouses, income received from the business may be considered marital property, provided such income is attributable to the personal efforts of either spouse. For example, if both spouses work at the business producing income, that income will be considered marital property, even though the business is the separate property of just one of the spouses.

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Mother Ordered to Pay $195,000 in Child Custody Legal Fees

 Posted on April 02, 2014 in Child Custody

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New Study Suggests Rebound Relationships may be Beneficial

 Posted on March 26, 2014 in Family Law

When going through a breakup, different people will offer different advice. Some will say that it is unfair to date a new person while still having feelings for an ex.  Other people will say that the best way to move on from a split is to start dating someone new. Now there is research to say that the second option is the healthier decision.

In a joint study between Queens College in New York City and the University of Illinois, researchers interviewed over 300 young adults. Some were in committed relationships and others were single. The researchers intended to study the effects of a rebound relationship on the well-being of the recently dumped. They published their findings in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships.

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Getting Back On Your Feet after Divorce

 Posted on March 24, 2014 in Divorce

No matter the circumstances, divorce is a scary and emotional process to go through. After constantly being one-half of a couple for so long, it can be difficult to start fresh and be single again. However, there are several steps you can take to make the transition easier.

First, do not waste time with regret. You have no way to go back and change what happened with you and your ex, but you do have the option to get back out there and start living the life you want. And you can begin by getting all of the required paperwork in order, so that your divorce can be finalized quickly and it can become a reality for which you can adjust.

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What Are the Different Types of Protective Orders in Texas?

 Posted on March 11, 2014 in Family Law

For victims of domestic abuse and violence, it may appear that there is no hope for escape. However, that is not the case. The most effective way to escape domestic abuse is through a protective order. According to the Texas Council on Family Violence, a protective order is a "civil court order issued to prevent continuing acts of family violence."

There are three types of protective orders in Texas: temporary ex parte, final, and magistrate's order of emergency protection. A temporary ex parte protective order will provide a victim of domestic abuse with immediate protection. These may be obtained without the presence of the abuser in court, so long as the judge believes the abuser presents a clear danger of violence to the victim. However, an abuser cannot be arrested for violating this type of order. Temporary ex parte orders generally last for 20 days and can sometimes be renewed for an additional 20-day period. Next, we have the magistrate's order of emergency protection, sometimes referred to as simply an emergency protective order. These are issued by the criminal court after an abuser has been arrested for committing family violence, sexual assault, or stalking. This type of order is generally good for 31-61 days, but will last from 61-91 days if the abuser was arrested for assault with a deadly weapon. The third and final type of protective order is called a final protective order. These orders are effective for the time period specified in the order itself-which is typically up to two years. There are a few different circumstances, however, that will allow a final order to be effective for more than two years. The abuser may petition the court to ask for the discontinuation of the order after it has been in effect for one year. Victims of domestic violence may feel that they have no place to turn, but there is hope for safety. If you or someone you know is a victim of domestic abuse, do not go through it alone. Contact a dedicated Texas family law attorney to assist you in obtaining a protective order.

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Financial Stress Leads to an Increase in Domestic Violence

 Posted on February 28, 2014 in Family Law

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